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21 years
I want to have sex but afraid to hurt her or break her hymn during the intercourse. We are engaged and this will be our first time. Guide us please.. she is 19
Aug 23, 2014

Dr. Rania Mousa General Medicine
So it is better to wait until marriage if you are engaged and you are worried and don't want to break her hymen since there will still be a possibility that during foreplay in the vaginal area that you may proceed and cause penetration and thus breaking the hymen .
beside some rare cases might become pregnant even in outer close contact to the opening of the vagina which make more problems for you both .
However ,the safest way is only by foreplaying such as kissing or touch without going more in the vaginal area
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